He always inquires about my writing, sometimes asks after Hobkin, and is generally interested and engaging. He's also got an incredibly appealing bedside manner—stern in a grandfatherly sort of way—and has a charming Italian accent. And I actually believe he cares about my health; when I first saw him, he scolded me for not seeing a rheumatologist before for my lupus (I mentioned the ineptitude of my previous doctors, didn't I?).
He's also the reason I haven't wanted to switch to a different HMO despite the fact that it's the most expensive HMO option offered and some egregiously terrible experiences—bordering on (possibly crossing into) malpractice terrible—not to mention the general bungling, incompetence, and inability to provide basic customer service I've suffered at the hands of my HMO. But it seems that the state is making that decision for me. Due to budget issues, my place of work is dropping my current HMO as a benefit option, so come 2010, I'm going to have to switch.
When I first heard about this, I was appalled. My rheumatologist is specific to the particular HMO I'm currently with, so I won't be able to keep seeing him. But, after our follow-up on Friday, I'm a little less dismayed. Not 'cause I like him any less or anything, but 'cause he said that "I've graduated" (his words, hee!) and don't need to see him as often since I've been stable and flare-up free for so long. He suggested we decrease the frequency of our follow-up appointments down to once a year—with, of course, a stern admonition to call him immediately if I start evidencing any signs of a flare-up. And then he teased me about missing him.
Although y'know, I actually will miss him, 'cause I rather enjoy our visits.
But with me only seeing him once a year—and the fact that, at best, I won't mind replacing my other doctors, at worst, I'll be glad to swap them for another one since I can't imagine their replacements being much worse—it's less distressing.
Still, I remain miffed that I don't get a say in this matter. 'Cause in the end, I find any amount of aggravation and incompetence from the rest of my HMO to be a fair trade for seeing my rheumatologist. So even though I can contemplate this mandatory service provider switchover somewhat philosophically, I remain very unhappy that I have to give him up come 2010.
*My p-doc still thinks I have ADD even though I remind her every single time I see her that I'm taking Adderall to combat lupus/MCTD-related fatigue, not to treat ADD. Not to mention that I have no (and have never had any) symptoms of ADD and have never been tested for or diagnosed with ADD. Not impressive. I'd be raring to switch p-docs and would have way before now, except that pretty much all she is to me is a signature on a 'scrip, so it doesn't really matter to me how incapable she is as a doctor.
Writing accomplished this weekend: none. Glargh. Move along, folks. Nothing to see here. Sigh.